growing and glowing with life

 

I am a kind of person who always wants to achieve things now and i am someone who always crave for goals, all of us have goals and all of us dream bigger, and we always should work hard for our goals, het sometimes there ae situations that break us and life bend us and get into a situation that we can not do what we want, hence it makes uss feel worthless, for my example when i was in collage i used to have bigger dreams to study more and have a good job in mnc of somewhere in elite companies but as i get into my chronic illness now i was facing situations and fighting from my life, there was a time i used to think all my dreams are destroyed and i am worthless and a burden for my family, as time passes and i was recovering from my illness after surgery and as soon as i was feeling well i started to get ideas about new goals and i realised that as soon as a door closed a new door opens up, but the key of the door is that you have to be hopeful and courier, it is about our mindset too sometimes we think that there is nothing we can do and we are living in despair but it is not always like this the more you think negative about yourself and your life the more you dig a hole for yourself, a living graveyard is something or a man who thinks there is a no way for him to do anything or start anytime, this is the only difference between successful people and fail people that people who succeed never stop trying while people who fial stop trying or fall into despair as soon as they taste failure.

Life is not like this and no one is coming to take a note of your success but success is something that can make you satisfied and happy something that have filled your life with good and amazing memories something that is nourishing your soul whenever you are thinking about that, but this i believe that every person should do something taht sculpt him everyday, each of us should have some goals that gives us a kind of   challenge and makes us better, if you are not going to face challenges you area not going to grow in your life, may be for me my illness is taht challange and maybe for you you are facing thouse things as challenge, we all have difficulties and they shape us.

Have you ever heard the story of the farmer 

Let me tell you there is a famous story

A farmer in the village used to live happily with his family i every seaspon he had amazing crops he sell them and nourish and fulfil his and his family needs, everything was going well, one seaso as every year he harvest the crops and after few months when it was about to cut the crops , there was a huge storm came and all his crop was destroyed in the storm and later that day he saw his crop and everything was destroyed he was seeing only destruction everywhere, he fell into sorrow and as soon as he managed to composed himself, he started blaming god and telling him how am i going to feed my family now? And after few time god appeared in form of light and tell him son this storms are important for them if not they won’t be able to grow, farmer did not hear him and still he was blaming that you send the storm on the wrong tim e and if i had the power to send the storm i would send it on the right time. God said ok i will give you powers to bring the storm so next year you can send the storm any time you want. Again next year when the time to crop, he put seeds on the soils and as his crops needed water he call for rain and do his necessary thing. This time there was no storm and all the crops were growing and glowing shiny but as he cut the crop and check the seed there was so small and looked like they have no nutrition. Again he call for the god and as he start convo with the god \, god tell him this is the reason because they were not able to face any storms, face the crops face the storms they learn to grow some might die and some outcome the storm and that s how they became nutritious, the farmer reaalise his mistake and say sorry to god. 

This is how we grow too, have you ever noticed that people who face so many struggles and problems are usually more stronger and better, who do lots of physical work is more mentally powerful.

This is how we grow tooo