Live Free

 

Hello everyone, today we are going to talk about how to get rid of limited behaviors in life to live with a free mindset.  First of all we have to understand what limited behavior is & how living with a limited mindset can make a person’s life worst & un- excited.  So a limited behavior is something when someone live or spend his entire life living in one condition or living or suffering from same situation. One simple example of living in a limited condition is suppose if something bad happens with you one year ago and you are still suffering or you destroy your happiness thinking about that bad situation or accident, another example I will give of a limited behavior is when someone hurts you and you judge everyone based on that person. Today we are going to understand how limited behavior or limited mindset stops us to live a limited life and die miserable.

First aspect to understand this process is to understand ourselves. See it’s really- really important for every single human to understand who he /she is, what he is doing in his life, and how he is spending his time. Time is very important for everyone and time is life. So first question you should ask to yourself is what are you doing in your life, it’s important to analysis yourself , in today’s world  we are too busy to doing something or achieving something and in all this run of life we forget to see what actually we are doing in our life, we just spend time like machine programmed for something and as a result we feel something is missing, you feel something is missing only when you don’t live life the way you want to, when you live like machine so it’s really important for you to understand who you are and what are you doing in life. After understanding yourself you will fount many things about yourself, good things bad things what you like and what you don’t like, what you love to do and what you don’t , this analysis will really help you to be a better person not just for yourself but for everyone around you . Today we are to busy to understand the world that we have forgotten ourselves that’s why many people put blame on others when something bad happens with them, this will also help you to what you should really do in life, and ones you will be on right path of doing what you love you will be successful, one of the main reason of failure is when someone tries to do what he doesn’t love or he just do it for having something and in that process or work that things makes him bored and he can’t devote himself in that work, and devotion is something that is most important for every single work to be successful. If you can’t devote yourself on a work you will never be able to learn or do it good, as you can see, all this things that you really don’t like to do but you do make yourself uncreative and bored, and it put your life in a limited conditioning that’s why many people feel bored.

Perception- The simple meaning of perception is how you see yourself, how you define things or moments that happens with you on a daily basis and how you react on them, it’s really simple, you have heard the story of a alcohol addicted father and his two sons, one becomes alcoholic just like his father watching his father and one decide to never drink alcohol in his entire life, it’s simply because how they both see his father what was their perception about drinking. This types of things happens with us to not same but similar when we have to decide how we will react on that situation and how to see things decide how you will live your life, it’s really easy to understand, and just by changing the perceptions you can change your life immediately.  Now the question is how perceptions work? It must have some connections?  why a person react positive and another react negative on same things? The answer is information and environment, what information you take, what your friends and family shares with you, if everyone around you will talk that everything is un fair in life, life is boring, life is suffering than you will be like that too, you will think like this to, and if everyone around you are optimistic and says positive things about life and situation you will grow mentally strong, well unfortunately we all don’t know who is right and who is wrong in our childhood but after a certain age we become able to understand what is really good and what is really bad for us and how should we live life, so we can transform ourselves in this age if we want, life is full with good and bad things it’s not about having or achieving something but it’s about living in your own terms.

Fear- Fear is another thing that makes our life and compelled   to live a limited life, for example someone wants to do a business but afraid whether It will be fail or not, what he will do? because of the fear of failure he will never start a business, we will not discuss to much about fear because we all know about it very well, one thing I can say is that we are afraid of future, fear never occurs when we are in present, so as long as you can understand it, try to face your fears so that you can live with more freedom.

That’s all for today, and one more thing I want to say is that if someone wants to live a life of freedom that mental freedom is really important and it’s harder than financial freedom and it gives you more happiness and peace that financial freedom, and financial freedom is too comes if you accept mentally that it is enough for you.

I hope you like this blog. Hope you are doing well, see you soon.