The whole process of transformation

 

Hello everyone, today we are going to talk about the whole process of transformation, how to transform ourselves and how to make us better. Life is growing daily we are getting more and more developed day by day and life is changing and the world is changing day by day and in this whole process it is very important for every individual to transform himself to make himself better  for a good and successful life and if we are suffering in life or if we not at that place we want to reach in our life that it is also important for us to transform ourselves to make our life better and to live a happy and peaceful life. But many times we try to transform our self, when we try to make us more better or to leave any habit we became more addicted in that habit, for example if you eat too much or if you have a bad habit of eating fast food and now you want to transform yourself and you tell yourself that I will not eat much and I will keep myself disciplined and you try to put your eating emotions down or when you try to control your emotions, you will see that you became more hungry and you started eating more than before in that position and you became more fatty, you many have another types of problem that you want to transform in yourself I just gave you a simple example, so now the question is that why the more we want to keep ourselves in control and the more we lost control? Why is it?

Today we are going to discuss this whole process and we will discuss it together, i am just a mirror I am neither truth or nor wrong but you can see my words as a mirror to see yourself because I don’t know you, and no one knows you only you know yourself so it is up on you to transform yourself .so we are going to cover some points here –

1-   Curiosity – The first point is curiosity, if you want to transform yourself then you must be curious, why? You want to transform yourself, if you are greedy, if you are lusty, if you are selfish than why you are selfish? Or why you can’t control yourself? Curiosity will help you to show who you are, just ask yourself why and how? What you are? Why you are like this and you will find your real self. Curiosity will help you to find your real self, to see your real self what you are right now, and yes no one in this world and no book in this world can help you to find who you are , they can be your mirror that will help you to see yourself but this process is on you, you have to do it for yourself, and curiosity will be your weapon to find yourself, once you can find the problem than with the problem solution will come. Because there is a key for every lock.

 

2-    Accept what you are-  once you will see or you can find who you are right now than To transform yourself it is important for you to accept what you are right now, without accepting or without fully knowing what you are right now It is impossible for you to transform yourself. Because transformation is a process that will immediately happen but for this you must accept what you are and where are you know , and if you are not accepting where are you now or what you are now it is impossible to transform yourself. And accept it that you are this because if you want to go somewhere you have to see where are you now.

 

3-   No conflict- This is the main part in transformation, after knowing and accepting what you are and who you are you started controlling yourself, you started pushing yourself and the result? You suffer more , why it happens? Because you create a conflict in controlling yourself. Because your past habits started scratching you and they make weak, they make you to suffer more. So what should you do? The answer is to see the significance and to understand why you want to transform and what will be you if you will be able to transform yourself. For example if you want to eat good food but you are unable to do it so, than your first work must be seeing the significance of what will happen, to winning yourself to understanding yourself that this will happen with me, and my life will be better, without conflict, you don’t need discipline, you don’t need patience, just see things as they are and accept them and understand than why should you do it, without any violence, you will see that you will be transformed immediately, because whole process of transformation happen immediately.

 

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Thank you for reading this, accept what you are and shine.