why we suffer

 

Hello! I hope everything is good in your life, today we are going to discuss about why we suffer and what is the main cause of our suffering, so let’s start, So we all know that life is full of ups and downs, full of happiness and misery in our life we meet many people make good relationship with then and lost them too, it is the simplest of rule of life that the one who is born will have to die one day. But sometimes we suffer In life, what are the reasons of our suffering? We will cover some points here that will helps us to understand the cause of suffering and the main reason behind our suffering, so there are two types of suffering first one in suffering that created by ourselves and suffering by created by the world or accidental sufferings like loosing a job, and many more, 2^nd one is hard enough to cover up for us, but we are able to cover up the first one that is suffering created by us, and trust me 90% of suffering is created by us, so what to do to live a life as a life, what to do be happy in life? What to do to live with potential, so let’s cover up some points here that will helps us to know the cause of our sufferings and how to come up with all this sufferings-

 *1- cluttered life   - so first reasons I am going to cover is that the cluttered life, cluttered life is the main reason of our suffering, so what is the meaning of cluttered life? Cluttered life means not having a purpose of life, not having a single thought about what you are actually doing with life, not knowing what food are you eating and anything, just like living like a robot who is in a automatic mode and who is just want or run but know where to go, in this stage you will just run around and around. But never reach anywhere. So first question is to ask yourself are you living a cluttered life? What is the purpose of your life? What food and information you are putting in your mind? Don’t you think you are too negative about life? What is the reason of this negativity? Ask yourself all this questions because no one is going to solve your problems that are stable in your mind or make you a uncluttered person, only way to solve this unclutteredness is you, and to solve this problems ask questions to yourself, because curiosity is everything, it is a key of your every problems. And once you understand this you will solve most of your problems by yourself.

 

Not having a clear purpose about life- The next point of our conversation is that not having a clear purpose about life is also a reason of misery, in this situation a person gets too confused about his work and all he wants to find a work or a purpose in this situation he started observing others and start judging himself with others and the result when he start judging himself with others creates a big conflict in him and as a result he started thinking bad about him and get sad without a reason, also sometimes now we are living a information technology world where we are covered with a lots of information, lots of people with different ideas different life styles and different cultures and in this situation every single person is selling something, everyone want to show himself as good as he wants every single individual is trying to show how good is his or her life is, and in this situation comparing takes place and we started comparing ourselves with them influencers and feel that our life is worse, and  in this situation you try hard to be like them and what you  are not, so you lost your real self to desiring to entering in a new world that you think is full of happiness and this creates a duality between you and your real self.

Solution- so to solve this kinds of problems it is important for you to know your real self, one you can be able to know your real self, you will be able to find out what you really wants to do in your life, once you know your real self or what is the thing you really wants to do in your life, and to know or to find out your real self it is very important for you to see yourself without judgment, see yourself clearly with a clear mindset, see your abilities and disabilities than ask yourself is this a real purpose I should spent my time on, after this make a true vision for a future without running for it and than do it everyday in this situation you won’t be distracted by the other things. And it will help you much to live a good life.

 

Cluttered life or un organized living style- This is also a main reason of why many people suffer in their life, if you are cluttered, you don’t know how to live life, you don’t know how to manage your life, how to manage your time than you will be very confused person and that can be cause of your suffering, like If you don’t know what is going on in your life, you don’t know what you are currently doing, and what you really want to do, in this situation you will create a great conflict and the result will be worse. You know the greatest art is to how to live a life, the greatest art in life is art of living in a right way,

 

 

Lack of self knowledge-  The another reason of many people’s suffering is that the lack of knowing the self and the lack of self evaluation, many people suffer because they don’t know about themselves,  they don’t  know what is going on in their life, many people live life lke a deep sleep. They don’t know anything or all  they want

 

 

Lack of self knowledge – This is the main and the most common reason why many people suffer at every stage of life. “ Without understanding the self, you can not understand the world so first understand your self.” “ Without loving yourself you can not love the world so first love yourself.” “ Without winning yourself you can not win the world so first win yourself."

The lack of self knowledge, many people don’t know about themselves, why? Because they are very busy trying to know others, many people don’t ever understand themselves, why? Because they are to busy try to understand others. Many people don’t get success in any fields, why? Because they failed to include their will power and will power comes from winning himself.  Today we are living in the world of social media and the information technology world , where we are covered with a lots of data, and the information and in this information we are lost, our real self is lost, your real self is lost, who is crying loud very loud, who is begging to see himself once, because you are ignoring your real self and he is dying, he is dying because you are not feeding and taking care of your real self very well.

And this is the reason of your suffering because you are ignoring your real self, you suffer in every part of your life, because your real self is lost in the IT world, and he is hidden inn the influencing, he is hidden, because you are too busy to catch something, and than you suffer.  So now what to do to know your real self? I am not going to tell you who you really are because I don’t know who you are, and no one in this world knows who you really are and what is your real self, but I can help you to do it, I can help you to find your real self because I achieve this, now I know myself really well, not 100%, but I know myself better when ii start thinking. So first thing to know your real self is to ask question why you suffer just, if you get sick, doctor finds out what is your problem , once he found the cause of sickness , half of your problem will be solved, so first is to find the problem, ask yourself questions and you will receive the answer from your inner self, your inner self have power to recover himself you just sit alone and ask questions, your self will give you answers, and you will be a powerful person. Many times what happens with us that without self knowledge and self evaluation, we want to control our outside world  and peoplewith how we want , but the reality is that you can't control the outside world, you want to behave people in a way you want but it is not possible, even you don't behave how they want because we are not slaves, we are free, in this lack of self knowledge, people forget that everyone has their own life and priorities that they can't control and we should respect them . In this sense a person learn to not depend too much on others but to behave and control himself and not accept too much from others than us. 

You must know this that you come alone in this world you will go alone. This journey is yours, others are just part not you. So you have to understand your self, for understanding the world. You have to win yourself to win in this world. You have to know yourself to know this world.

 

So this is enough for today, I hope you liked this and this is helpful for you. I wish you best of you in this journey, live life. You are born fulfilled and you don’t need anything or anyone to fill fulfilled.

Thank you.