Restrainting

Hello! Today we are going to talk about the 4 main part of restraint that are  very important for everyone of

us to control ourselves. if one can be able to understand this particles of self

restraint than they can achieve almost everything in life. First we have to understand that it is very

important for us to control ourselves, why it is important for controlling ourselves?. The simple answer

is life is a river and there are too many cyclones of sadness and misery in life, if you will always go with

it’s flow you will ended up in the cyclone of misery and sadness. So how do you prepare and control

yourself to save yourself from this cyclones and protect yourself from this all things and live a good

flexible good life. You should have enough understanding in life, that what is good and what is not

good, what should you do and what not, what is my ambition and what is not my work to do, and

there are many aspects or things in our life that most of us don’t know because we are not aware of it,

this unawareness leads us to get stuck in this cyclone of life and we ended up miserable or when we

get out of this cyclone then we realize that we wasted our valuable life, that we have.

So there are some parts of controlling in our life that handle our life or if we can manage this 4 main

layers of restraint then we can achieve almost everything in our lfie.

Time control- The first aspect of time controlling, Time is the most important asset of our life, we

all have time but we are not aware of how to use it, where to spent it, “ if you waste your time

today, one day time will make you a waste.” Time is very important if you use your time, to learn

more things about what you want to do, you can achieve your goals. Or ambition, if you will

waste your time you will ended up miserable, so what to do to control our time to manage our

time to get better results in our life, to be more happier and peaceful in our life? The answer is

awareness and discipline. The reason we are wasting our time is because we are not aware

where and why we are spending It or what is the reason behind it. We are in the 21 century now

and we are at the peak of information technology where are can see or learn almost everything

in just sometime we are a sea of information in our devices that we can dive in anytime, just it

depends on us we are diving in the sweet water or in the mud water , whatever information we

will put in our minds we will be that person, so it is very important for you to be aware of it that

where are using your most valuable asset of your life. Disciplined about it and utilize your time in

the right palace and use it to put right information in your mind that can be make your life better

and happier.

2- Thought control- Thoughts is what we think.We think all day, our mind works all day even when

we sleep our thoughts or what we do in the day time convert into dreams, we think all day about

something, our mind runs all day, thinking about something, if it is a good or positive thought it

helps us to be more happy and if it is not good thought then it makes us sad or miserable, and

most of us in control our thoughts that sometimes makes our life worst. So how do we can

control our thoughts? First of all you should understand where this all negative and positive

thoughts come from? They came from the information we put in our mind, we have many social

media account that we use them too much we see news, and there are too many things that we

see and we hear, this all information converts into our thoughts if it is good then it will be a good

thought if it is bad it will e a bad thought every thought make us happy or sad, also your

thoughts and works depends on your association. If your friends are indefinite and they create a

negative energy around you, your thoughts will be negative and if they are positive , then your

thoughts and life will be positive. So to control your thoughts you must control the information

you put in your mind, fill your mind with positive and valuable information and be with good

people who creates a good atmosphere around you and helps you to grow.

Meaning restraint- Meaning means all the material things that you work hard to earn, like your

money, your home, also your time and your energy, it is very important for us to control them all

and be aware of where we are using our time, energy, money. These all are the most important

parts of our life, we should be aware of where are spending our money, we work hard to earn

money but we are not aware where we are spending it, we buy unwanted things form it, and

they become garbage after one use for us, so it is very important for you to be aware of where

you are spending it, and use it.

Self restraint- self control is the most important in this 4 aspects if you can control yourself you

can do anything in your life. The reason we are not in our control is because we are very in

disciplined in our life, we are not using our time our energy and our, thoughts in the tight palace

to control our self, we should be aware of using our time, our energy, and our thoughts whatever information we put in our mind) this all we can control if we have enough awareness.

So if you need to make your life more peaceful and happier it is very important for you to “ be

aware of what you are putting in your mind” where you are using your time” where you are using

your energy, and which energies are surrounded around you, your friends and other people, to

manage yourself the most important is to put the right information in your mind it will help you

to manage yourself then you can live happily.

Thank you for reading this, I hope you like this. I will wait for your feedback .